Why are these Black women alone?

I wonder why sometimes when I see some black woman who are a tri-fecta (they are attractive, have income and a prosperous career), that they are content on being alone. They have made up their minds that nothing is wrong with waiting for Mr. right. The concept makes sense, I mean why settle for something less than what you think that you deserve. So lets look at it from this point of view. Some of these women have been in and out of relationships for years now because he does have fit the criteria that she had set fourth, and she is not willing to settle !

Now this is a bright ideal that I came up with, if you can look pass the oblivious, height, weight or income you may have an opportunity to find happiness. Lets face it no relationship is perfect and even if you find that perfect one on paper, income, looks and he wants the same thing as you do, is their a chance he still might have faults? So you spent your whole life waiting for this peach and in reality he really is a lemon. Do you kick yourself for waiting for so long or do you try to make lemon aide and keep on,keeping on?


Maybe from my point of view as a man I really can relate to what they are saying and why they are saying it. Maybe if these women lower their bar, so that some of these good men can get to them, they may have a chance for love. Then again if you keep looking for that pot of gold at the end of the rainbow, you may never find it, and you will still be alone!

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