Relationships and why they fail

The most important reason that relationships fail today is communication! Communication today is over ruled by passion and what it leads to. The importance of knowing who you are going to share your life with means nothing if a booty call was the foundation for the relationship.

The ideal of building a strong bond with the woman or man of your dreams is something that you must define! When we go through life searching for that mythical male or female, they all seem to fall short. For the true definition of a perfect woman and great relationship is more than words. Unfortunately if your relationship is based solely on the merits of a physical relationship 90% of the time, they just don't last!

The most important thing that we all need is knowledge. That characteristic that we all possess as a man or woman is the ability to connect... You see when you know what you don't want,  it makes it easier to find what you need... Relationships built on substance last a lifetime, while those built on minutes of pleasure just don't last! When you take your time and and get to know the person then you have an opportunity to find true happiness...

Now lets face the facts, you have been living your life in the sign of insanity. You base all your relationships on the same script. When you keep doing the same thing and expect different results, that is insanity!

Communication is just not mental, its physical as well. Some men and women go through a life time hoping to change something about their mate and they end up settling for a life of unhappiness. We see it everyday when a man or woman walks away from a relationship that they have 10 or more years in that relationship.

So now that we know why relationships fail, is it safe to say that with time, effort and a laundry list of what we  want and don't need would be a key to a successful one?


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