the bird feeder.

I bought a bird feeder. I hung it on my back porch and filled it lovingly with seed. It was indeed a beautiful bird feeder. With in a week we had hundreds of birds taking advantage of the continuous flow of free and easily accessible food. But then the birds started building nests in the boards ofthe patio, above the table, and next to the barbecue. Then came the bird shit. It was everywhere; on the patio tile, the chairs, the table ... everywhere! Then some of the birds turned mean. They would dive bomb me and try to peck me even though I had fed them out of my own pocket. And others birds were boisterous and loud. They sat on the feeder and squawked and screamed at all hours of the day and night and demanded that I fill it when it got low on food. Aftera while, I couldn't even sit on my own back porch anymore. So I took down the bird feeder and in three days the birds were gone. I cleaned up their mess and took down the many nests they had built all over the patio. Soon, the back yard was like it used to be ... quiet, serene and no one demanding their rights to a free meal. Now let's see ..... Our government gives out freefood, subsidized housing, free medical care, and free educationand allows anyone born here to be an automatic citizen. Then the illegals came by the millions. Suddenly our taxes went up to pay for freeservices; small apartments arehousing 5 or more families; you have to wait 6 hours to be seen bya doctor in an emergency room because it is filled with illegals; your child's 2nd grade class is behind other schools because over half the class doesn't speak English. Corn Flakes now come in a bilingual box; I have to press one' to hear my bank talk to me in English, and people waving flags other than 'Old Glory' are squawking and screaming in the streets, demanding morerights and free liberties. Its just my opinion but: maybe, just maybe, it's time for the government to take down the damn bird feeder. The

Eight Ways to Become a Better FatherPastor Gregory Dickow

Parenting is one of the most rewarding - and most challenging - jobs out there.
As an encouragement to fathers, I want to share with you the eight ways to become a better father.
Even if you're not a father yet ...or your kids have grown up and moved away ...or you're a single mom raising children without a father, there's something in this list for you.
But don't read these points and tuck them away for another day. Start acting on them right now - it's never too late to become a better father! Your children will thank you!
1. Get to know God as Father.
God is the ultimate Father ...loving, wise, encouraging, slow to anger. As a father, you are His representative here on earth, and if you get to know Him better, you can better parent your own children. So spend time in prayer. Spend time in the Word. Spend time building a relationship with your Heavenly Father. Understand that He loves you, comforts you, protects you, provides for you ALL THE TIME ...and you'll be better able to do the same for your own children.
2. Give your children a sense of belonging, acceptance, and identity.
Remember how much God the Father loved His Son. He loved Jesus from day one - before Jesus accomplished anything, before He laid hands on one person or preached one sermon.
So don't treat your children as an interruption. Don't make them feel that they're in the way. You're a parent and your job is to do the parenting!
Make sure your children feel that they hold a unique place in your special family. They belong there, and what matters to them should matter to you. So if they bring you a problem - a bully at school or a tough test ahead - talk to them. Listen to them. Maybe you faced the same predicament as a child and know that it's not a big deal. But to them right now, that problem is a big deal - maybe the biggest one they've faced so far in their lives.
3. Embrace your children.
One of the best ways to give your children that sense of belonging is to hug them - even when they wiggle out of your arms. Hugs are therapeutic and give children acceptance, love, and warmth. Studies even say that they reduce the risk of sickness and disease!
4. Love your wife.
A sense of security comes to a child who sees his father love his mother. They need that security!
Ephesians 5:25 says, "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church." Christ loved the Church unconditionally, uncompromisingly, sacrificially, continuously. Love your wife like that, and your marriage will blossom ...and your children will blossom too.
5. Respect your child's thoughts, feelings, and dreams.
Please, guard your tongue. Don't let the words, "That's a dumb idea. That's stupid." come out of your mouth. If you had come up with that idea, maybe it would have been dumb. But since your child did, it's the best one you've ever heard!
6. Keep your promises.
Be careful of the promises you make. Love says, "I will never break my promise." So, again, you have to watch your tongue. Get it under control, and don't commit to something you can't make good on. When you say you'll do something, do it!
Keeping promises also builds trust. When your children have grown up and are no longer under your care, they'll be able to trust God because you paved the way. Your behavior can offer them a glimpse of their Heavenly Father!
7. Encourage your children.
The first part of Ephesians 6:4 says, "Fathers, don't exasperate your children" (NIV). In other words, encourage them! You can do that through kind words - like, "You're so smart." "You're a thoughtful child." "I'm proud to be your father." You can also do that through your actions. So, smile at them! Give them more hugs!
Sometimes it's easy for us as parents to forget that our kids aren't little adults - they're children. They don't have all the skills grown-ups do. So, when your daughter knocks over the lamp in the living room, for example, show her understanding. Don't discourage her, and don't rebuke her for being uncoordinated or clumsy - her body just isn't done growing.
8. Teach them the Word.
The second part of Ephesians 6:4 says, "Bring them up in the training and instruction of the Lord" (NIV). So teach them the Word; encourage them to build their lives on it. And let them see you following the Word yourself. They'll thank you for this for the rest of your life.
A note for single mothers: If you're a mom raising your children on your own, you can do it. Many of the principles above can be applied to your situation. Sure, you need to make up for the lack that your kids are experiencing, for the father that's not fulfilling his obligations. But God is on your side. He's a "father to the fatherless" (Psalm 68:5). You're not doing it alone.
God bless all of you as parents!
Pastor Gregory M. Dickow is the founder and Senior Pastor of Life Changers International Church, one of the largest congregations in the Chicago land area, and the Host of Changing Your Life television program that reaches more than 500 million households weekly. Pastor Dickow is also founder of Gregory Dickow Ministries. For more information, go to http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?e=001dmXoYSlerECxED5r6kLnlLLO8ET8gd_qcxPBZ0aPm2yeGgYgWeOLJK0xUAOCZW0ee_bsY6Dsbjxcw66BvRuejX2SDP5fv5Bu-jQOoAFmtjk5l-9QMQejbtrl9bruK14E.

Whispers

The man whispered, 'God, speak to me' and a meadowlark sang.

But, the man did not hear.

So the man yelled, 'God, speak to me' and the thunder rolled across the sky.





But, the man did not listen.






The man looked around and said, 'God let me see you.' And a star shined brightly.




But the man did not see.




And, the man shouted, 'God show me a miracle.' And, a life was born.

But, the man did not notice.




So, the man cried out in despair, 'Touch me God, and let me know you are here.'

Whereupon, God reached down and touched the man. But, the man brushed the butterfly away

and walked on.




I found this to be a great reminder that God is always around us in the little and simple things that we take for granted ... even in our electronic age.

So I would like to add one more:

The man cried, 'God, I need your help!' And an e-mail arrived reaching out with good news and encouragement.













But, the man deleted it and continued crying .





Don't miss out on a blessing because it isn't packaged the way that you expect.

My instructions were to share this with people that I wanted God to bless and I picked you all. Won't you please pass this to people you want to be blessed.

Dear Employees:

It has been brought to management's attention that some individuals throughout the company have been using foul language during the course of normal conversation with their co-workersDue to complaints received from some employees who may be easily offended, this type oflanguage will no longer be tolerated. We do, however, realize the critical importance of being able to accurately express your feelings when communicating with co-workers. Therefore, a list of 18 New and Innovative'TRY SAYING' phrases have been provided so that proper exchange of ideas and information can continue in an effective manner.
Number 1
TRY SAYING: I think you could use more training.INSTEAD OF: You don't know what the f___you're doing.
Number 2
TRY SAYING: She's an aggressive go -getter.INSTEAD OF: She's a f___ing bit__.
Number 3
TRY SAYING: Perhaps I can work late.INSTEAD OF: And when the f___ do you expect me to do this?
Number 4
TRY SAYING: I'm certain that isn't feasible.INSTEAD OF: No f___ing way.
Number 5
TRY SAYING: Really?INSTEAD OF: You've got to be sh___ing me!
Number 6
TRY SAYING: Perhaps you should check with...INSTEAD OF: Tell someone who gives a sh__.
Number 7
TRY SAYING: I wasn't involved in t he project.INSTEAD OF: It's not my f___ing problem.
Number 8
TRY SAYING: That's interesting.INSTEAD OF: What the f___?
Number 9.
TRY SAYING: I'm not sure this can be implemented.INSTEAD OF: This sh__ won't work.
Number 10
TRY SAYING: I'll try to schedule that.INSTEAD OF: Why the f___ didn't you tell me sooner?
Number 11
TRY SAYING: He's not familiar with the issues.INSTEAD OF: He's got his head up his a__.
Number 12
TRY SAYING: Excuse me, sir?INSTEAD OF: Eat sh__ and die.
Number 13
TRY SAYING: So you weren't happy with it? INSTEAD OF: Kiss my black a__.
Number 14
TRY SAYIN G: I'm a bit overloaded at the moment.INSTEAD OF: F__ it, I'm on salary.
Number 15
TRY SAYING: I don't think you understand.INSTEAD OF: Shove it up your a__.
Number 16
TRY SAYING: I love a challenge.INSTEAD OF: This f___ing job sucks.
Number 17
TRY SAYING: You want me to take care of that?INSTEAD OF: Who the f___ died and made you boss?
Number 18
TRY SAYING: He's somewhat insensitive.INSTEAD OF: He's a pr_ck.

Thank You,Human Resources

Clothes

You are in love with Tommy,Because his last name is Hilfiger,But behind closed doors, Tommy,Is calling you a nigger,But you could care less,Because you have been taught to dress to impress,If I ask you about your true history,You would have to look on the back of your jeans and Guess,You come up in the club wearing Versace,Clothes made by a homosexual male,So even when you say you are straight,It is very hard to tell,And for footwear, you wear Timberlands,Even under the sun,That same tree that's the symbol for them,Could have been the same one your ancestors were hung from,I cannot forget Nautica,When was the last memory you have of ships,Coming to North America in shackles,Being beaten over the back with whips,And to my beautiful black queens,Whose creative womb has become barren,I am confused because your face says Nefertiti,But your sweater reads Donna Karen,When was the last time you saw Liz Claiborne,Conversing with black women,But as soon as her name is printed on a purse,To Macy's you quickly go, running,Ralph Lauren doesn't even look at black men,Unless they are driving him around town,But as soon as that slave master appears on the back of a horse,You put whatever you have picked up down,My people reclaim your status in this world and in your life,F.U.B.U. in case you didn't know, stands for (For Us By Us),Buying black will someday suffice,Do you know who owns Timberland fashion?Well, Timberland is owned by the president of the KKK,Surprised? Don't be.Read more books black people,Always hope for the best and prepare for the worst,You may not get what you pay for,But you'll surely pay for what you get.

The road to success

Philippians 4:13 --- I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
The road to success is not straight. There is a curve called Failure, a loop called Confusion, speed bumps called Friends, red lights called Enemies, caution lights called Family. You will have flats called Jobs. But, if you have a spare called Determination, an engine called Perseverance, insurance called Faith, a driver called Jesus, you will make it to a place called Success Pass it on to ten people whom you want to see blessed.

Just for people of color.

LOVE BLACK FOLK! -
THERE'S NOBODY LIKE EM'


With black folks, everything starts late! Everything ends late. Time is just a thang!

Black folks' philosophy about time is, "We may not be on time, but we are in time, and we don't want to miss anything."

Black folks arrive late for weddings, funerals, and Sunday church services! And then act like they are on time!

Black folks will go to social functions, particularly at church, and not stay for the program, but want to wrap up some food to take home as if the event is fast food "take out."

When some black preachers can't think of what else to say during a sermon, will say, "Look at your neighbor and say, 'God loves you!"

Every black family has a preacher...

When a lead choir member can't reach a high note or has forgotten the words, the choir members will get filled with "a holy ghost," get happy, shout and not have to finish the song.

A black gospel choir can sing a three word song for twenty minutes.

In the black church, the announcements are longer than the sermon.

Black folks cry and pass out at the funeral, but are fine and laughin' at the dinner following the interment.

The black church takes twenty minutes to take up an offering at an afternoon program and only raise $76.34! (don't forget they take an hour to count it again after church).

Black folks will ask grandparents to watch their kids while they run an errand but don't pick them up until two days later.

Black folks eat "fried" bologna.

Black folks refer to diabetes as, "Sugar."

Don't ask black folks for the precise time. They respond, "Almost a quarter after...." or a "little after two."

Black folks will eat ferociously at the family dinner, and then have the nerve to start wrappin' stuff up in foil to take home.

Black cashiers always seem to have an attitude.

Black folks sell CDs, potato chips, nabs and sodas out the trunk of their cars after church and at the football game.

Black folks have at least one person in the family who still wears a Jheri curl.

Black folks stay engaged for six years and never get married.

Black folks will have the telephone company shut off their house phone, but still have a cell phone on.

Black folks put hot sauce and ketchup on everything!

Black folks have at least one family member that "almost" made it to the pros.

Black folks will owe you and everybody else in the neighborhood money but can buy a new car.

Black folks re-use ZipLoc baggies, paper plates, plastic forks, spoons, and knives.

Black folks put thin left over bars of soap in jars or plastic containers, run scalding hot water over them to melt them down to use as dishwashing liquid or home made bubble bath.

Black folks won't throw anything away! The rationale is that you never know when you might need it!


IN SPITE OF ALL OF OUR PECULIAR WAYS, I STILL LOVE BLACK FOLKS! DON'T YOU?? lol

YOU'D BETTER CUZ YOU IS ONE!

Go on and smile...It is not that serious!

"Those who read are those who lead,
Those who don't, are totally deceived.
How will you grow, if you don't know?"
............... Words of Wisdom................... Peace depends on the existence of love.